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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
blushydior
blushydior

     welcome in a new month

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  • set goals for self development
  • plan brunch & dinner dates with friends
  • read 5-10 books
  • indulge yourself more in your hobbies. do what you love unapologetically.
  • have more rest days without guilt
  • reflect on last month. what can you do differently that’ll help your overall state of being? physically, mentally & spiritually
  • stay off social media
  • do the butterfly hug method for bilateral stimulation. tell yourself all the things you wish you were/are told.
  • make slight adjustments to your morning and night routine. keep it interesting.
  • schedule routine appointments (health, pamper)
  • get on top of deadlines.
  • say affirmations every morning & night
  • be more kind to yourself
  • stay firm on your boundaries, make adjustments as needed.
  • stand up and show up for yourself.
  • walk with your head held up high and shoulders back. don’t cower.
  • prepare for any upcoming events
  • learn a new skill
  • try a new recipe
  • journal often
  • explore new places. meet new people and make friends.
  • keep your thoughts in check. what you focus on grows.
  • daily walks
  • meditate, stretch.
  • declutter your environment (digital, physical space, social circle)
  • be safe.
pinkmoon888
pinkmoon888

I hate that the stock response for "I'm lonely/I feel undervalued by my loved ones/I want a romantic partner" is "well do you value YOURSELF? You need to learn to enjoy being alone!" as if lonely people aren't very intimately familiar with being alone. Self esteem and love are important but they're not substitutes for companionship or friendship or romance and pretending that loneliness is a personal failure that can be fixed by self-improvement feels not only delusional but pretty cruel